5 Important Advices Before Talking To A Girl For The First Time

Talking to a girl that we like or admire for the first time is something that we afraid of. We will keep on guessing whether she will talk to us or simply refuse to do so. You have to remember one thing before start talking to a girl for the first time, and that is, she is a human being as you are. You are talking to a human being. There is no need to be so damn afraid. In case if she rejects to talk to you, please, I would like to urge you not to be so damn upset. Show to her that you got nothing to lose. If you see girl that you like sitting alone in your school cafeteria, library etc, go heading to her and start talking to her. However, before you start talking to her, all you have to do is, know very well about talking to a girl.  Here I have provided for you 5 Important Advices Before Talking To A Girl You Admire For The First Time.

Confidence

Remember that I said she is just a human being as you are. During the conversation, do not feel uncomfortable or awkward. Show to her that you are brave and confidence enough to talk to. For girl, confidence is the most important thing every guys should have. Talk to her as you talk to your friend. Hide your nervousness and act like nothing happened. Believe me that she will be more comfortable to talk to you. 

Accept incoming result

You have to accept the incoming result. Accept the fact that you have been rejected by her if she does so. Do not feel that this is your end of life. There are still a lot of girls either in your school/college or wherever you go (check out my article about Best Places To Meet Girls - 7 best places to meet girls). Instead of being upset, you should feel proud of yourself for talking to a girl that you like rather than you just keep your feeling towards her in your heart as a top secret.

Do not talking about something that is only one-side interested

Do not wander to talking about something that you think most of the girls are not into. For example, football, cars upgrading, politician etc. Try to choose a neutral topic that both of you can enjoy listening and talking. It can be about new hot movie/songs, current issue etc. Or even better, try to talk about something that is more about to her. For instance, ask her about her family, friends, study etc. Anything that you can make her feels that you care about her and want to know her very well.

Contact

If the girl that you like still does not know how she can catch you up later after the conversation, do not forget to leave her you MySpace email, Facebook, Twitter and your Cell-phone number. So that you both can get to know each other more and one thing nobody knows is, that you both can get into relationship together.

Complimentary

Well we all know that most of the girls nowadays love to hear people talk good about them. So all you need to do is, insect a complimentary in your conversation. The complimentary must be truth one. For example,do not say she has a beautiful smile whereas she even doesn’t has tooth. Try to compliment her about something you see on her that is impressing you.





The bottom line is, be bold enough to approach (learn How To Approach A Girl In College - 6 important tips) and talk to her. Regardless whether she will reject or accept you. Lastly, i would like to thank to you for reading Important Advices Before Talking To A Girl You Admire For The First Time. Don't forget to leave your comment on this article. Tell me your own advice  about talking to a girl. I hope you can subscribe to my new posted article so that you will be updated with my blog new article.

How To Be A Good Boyfriend For Teenage

Everybody wants to be a good boyfriend for his girlfriend, and certainly, every girlfriend in the world would love to get a good boyfriend. As a boyfriend, I am sure that you want to keep your girlfriend in the relationship with you forever. To do that, you have to do something that will make her really love you. There is no other way other than be a good boyfriend for her to keep her as your girlfriend forever. Don’t waste any more time before you get dump by someone who you really love and willing to die for. Keep on reading How To Be A Good Boyfriend For Teenage  as I will reveal a couple of secret tips to be a good boyfriend.

Be protective

As a guy, you have to be protective towards your girlfriend. Show to her that you could do anything to make sure she is saved from any unexpected incident.  This will make her feel that you really concern about her.

Be honest and

This one is the important one. No matter what, try to avoid from prevaricating her. Be as honest as you could. If you did mistake, just straightaway tell her. Don’t make her assume you as a mendacious.  Once you lie to her, there is hard to convince her for next time you need to do so.

Give something

Find out what she desire for. Girl love to shop. When you going shopping with her, try to ask her what does she want. And the next time you meet her, give the stuff that she wants. Give it to her occasionally or “suprrriiiiiissssseeeeeee” .

Lie to impress

I know many guys out there love to impress girl that he likes/loves. Such as, you tell her that you are the captain of your school/college football team but actually, you never play football before. She will believe that you are what you said. And you are succeed to impress her. Remember, if she manage to find out the fact that you are not what you said, she will says bye-bye to you. Try to be your own self. There is no reason why you have to impress her. If you still want to impress her, you can do it through your caring, loving, attention etc.  

Befriend with her friends

To be a good boyfriend, you have to be good to your girlfriend’s friends. Get along with them.  You can use them as your ‘radar’ to help you keep an eye on her. They also can help you to resolve your relationship problem. (in case if you have)

Pay attention during conversation

Listen to her when she talks to you. She may need you suggestion.  If she has a problem, try to help her to solve it. Bear the problem along with her. Don’t let her bear it alone. Remember, she is girl, which mean she is ‘weaker’ than you. You can know what is going on to her through conversation. Pay as much attention as you could during conversation.

Touch her

Girl love to pampered. Put your hand on her shoulder when you both going out. Always make physical contact with her.  If you got chance to touch her at school/college, just do it. It shows to your schoolmates that you and your girlfriend are happy together.