Showing posts with label girl. Show all posts
Showing posts with label girl. Show all posts

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

5 Important Advices Before Talking To A Girl For The First Time


Talking to a girl that we like or admire for the first time is something that we afraid of. We will keep on guessing whether she will talk to us or simply refuse to do so. You have to remember one thing before start talking to a girl for the first time, and that is, she is a human being as you are. You are talking to a human being. There is no need to be so damn afraid. In case if she rejects to talk to you, please, I would like to urge you not to be so damn upset. Show to her that you got nothing to lose. If you see girl that you like sitting alone in your school cafeteria, library etc, go heading to her and start talking to her. However, before you start talking to her, all you have to do is, know very well about talking to a girl.  Here I have provided for you 5 Important Advices Before Talking To A Girl You Admire For The First Time.

Confidence

Remember that I said she is just a human being as you are. During the conversation, do not feel uncomfortable or awkward. Show to her that you are brave and confidence enough to talk to. For girl, confidence is the most important thing every guys should have. Talk to her as you talk to your friend. Hide your nervousness and act like nothing happened. Believe me that she will be more comfortable to talk to you. 

Accept incoming result

You have to accept the incoming result. Accept the fact that you have been rejected by her if she does so. Do not feel that this is your end of life. There are still a lot of girls either in your school/college or wherever you go (check out my article about Best Places To Meet Girls - 7 best places to meet girls). Instead of being upset, you should feel proud of yourself for talking to a girl that you like rather than you just keep your feeling towards her in your heart as a top secret.

Do not talking about something that is only one-side interested

Do not wander to talking about something that you think most of the girls are not into. For example, football, cars upgrading, politician etc. Try to choose a neutral topic that both of you can enjoy listening and talking. It can be about new hot movie/songs, current issue etc. Or even better, try to talk about something that is more about to her. For instance, ask her about her family, friends, study etc. Anything that you can make her feels that you care about her and want to know her very well.

Contact

If the girl that you like still does not know how she can catch you up later after the conversation, do not forget to leave her you MySpace email, Facebook, Twitter and your Cell-phone number. So that you both can get to know each other more and one thing nobody knows is, that you both can get into relationship together.

Complimentary

Well we all know that most of the girls nowadays love to hear people talk good about them. So all you need to do is, insect a complimentary in your conversation. The complimentary must be truth one. For example,do not say she has a beautiful smile whereas she even doesn’t has tooth. Try to compliment her about something you see on her that is impressing you.





The bottom line is, be bold enough to approach (learn How To Approach A Girl In College - 6 important tips) and talk to her. Regardless whether she will reject or accept you. Lastly, i would like to thank to you for reading Important Advices Before Talking To A Girl You Admire For The First Time. Don't forget to leave your comment on this article. Tell me your own advice  about talking to a girl. I hope you can subscribe to my new posted article so that you will be updated with my blog new article.

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Best Ways To Pick Up Girl In College/School

If you have read my article about Best Places To Meet Girls - 7 best places to meet teenage girls, college is one of the best places to meet girls. So now, I will assist you to pick up girls in your college by revealing Best Ways To Pick Up Girl In College/School.

Be nice

Certain people will be shy or nervous to nudge hot peoples. All you have to do is just go and talk to them. Nothing is wrong. They might have a same feeling as you. However, don’t be too choosy. Don’t forget to talk to unattractive people. Don’t try to shun from unattractive people. Just treat them as you treat hot people. There is likelihood that unattractive people know well about hot girls that you wish to pick up. The bottom line is, make as many friends as you could because some of them can help you to get girls you adore.

Stop waiting, start acting

The longer you wait, the more nervous you will be. Start your action soon after you have found a girl that you like. You can a simply ask her a simple question for conversation starter. She won’t berate or humiliate you just because you want to have a conversation with her. Start with simple conversation then you can have a drink with her and try to get to know her better. Otherwise, you will look jerk if she knows that you are not daring enough to talk to her.

Cafeteria /lunchroom

Try to look a ‘lonely girls’ in the cafeteria/lunchroom. Be sited next to her and keep her company. Don’t forget to ask for her permission first.

Library

You can see many girls studying in library. All you have to is joining them and study together.  Then next step is, you can pretend that you don’t understand the subject that you are studying with. Go and ask her about it.  she may curious about you and really want to meet you in college.

Online

You can use online as your alternative way. If you still nervous and shy to meet girls in college, you still can meet them through the internet. You just need to browse girl that catch your eyes in college. Get to know her through the internet first. Don’t forget to tell her that you are one of her college student. She will be curious about you. It makes her really want to meet you in then college.

You now can pick up any girls in your college or school. There is nothing hard for you to pick up any girls you desire for. Thank you for reading this article. I hope you will implement all the ways stated inBest Ways To Pick Up Girl In College/School.